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Sincerity and favoritism are just online words. In reality, sincerity and favoritism do not exist, they are both self-protecting and wearing a false mask. It is not that they do not want to, but that they dare not

真诚与偏爱只是网络词而已，现实的真诚与偏爱并不存在，都在自我保护，都带着一副虚假的面具，不是不想，而是不敢……

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Today, my child pulled out a glass jar of small notes I wrote to my husband before getting married. At that time, the tone was coquettish and innocent. Ten years have passed, and there is not a single note that I am satisfied with now. The more I think about it, the sadder I feel. I just secretly cried and turned my husband and wife into teammates. I am still not very satisfied with my teammates, so sad and helpless

今天孩子翻出了我结婚前写给老公的一玻璃罐子小纸条，当时语气娇嗔天真，10年过去了，没有一条，是我现在满意的。 越想越伤心，刚刚偷偷哭完，把夫妻过成了队友，还是不怎么满意的队友，多么的可悲又无可奈何…

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Love goes deep without entanglement, longing to the extreme without seeing you again, just don't understand, where am I not good enough for you to cherish so much, and where are you good, worthy of my blushing eyes and smiling to forgive.

爱到深处不纠缠，思念到极致不再见，只是不明白，我哪里不够好让你这么不珍惜，你又哪里好，值得我红了眼眶又笑着原谅。

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The true relationship between men and women is about both material and sexual matters. Women are not too reserved, while men are not too stingy. This is adult communication. Material things cannot measure emotions, but they can filter out insincerity.

真正的男女关系，既谈物质，又谈性，女的不太矜持，男的不太抠，这才是成年人的交往，物质不能衡量感情，但可以过滤不真诚。

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Regardless of men and women, seeking sincerity and favoritism... the ultimate loser was the worst. You loved him (her) as much as you could, but he (she) felt constrained

不管男人女人，图真诚与偏爱……

最后输得最惨，你爱他（她）如命，他（她）却觉得被束缚……

你对他（她）淡如水，他（她）却跟你谈感情……

我经历了，觉得很可笑很荒谬，伤过的心有疤，敷再好的药也不会好！

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When I was a child, I didn't feel the love of my father and mother, and when I grew up, I didn't manage my marriage well. I never knew what it felt like to be firmly chosen for a preference. Relying on everyone can run, relying on the mountain to fall, and I am the mountain to support myself

小时候没感受过父爱母爱，长大后婚姻也没有经营好，从不知道被坚定选择的偏爱是什么感觉，靠人人会跑，靠山山会倒自己就是靠山

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