高情商的人通过控制自己的情绪来控制与讨厌的人的互动。如果他们需要面对一个讨厌鬼，他们会理性地处理这种情况。他们会识别自己的情绪，不会让愤怒或挫败感加剧混乱事态。High EQ individuals control their interactions with toxic people by keeping their feelings in check. When they need to confront a toxic person, they approach the situation rationally. They identify their own emotions and don’t allow anger or frustration to fuel the chaos.

然而，无论你多努力，也永远当不了完美的“别人”。只有抛开别人的标准，挖掘自己的潜力，你才能成为最好、最快乐的自己。No matter how hard you try to be someone else you will never be good enough. You will do the best and be the happiest only if you stop living by someone else’s standards and start using your unique potential to shine like a light in this world.