当你被糟糕的事占据地腾不出身，你根本无法腾出手去迎接更好的事物，你现在觉得不甘心，当你放下再回头看，真的不值一提，甚至不想回忆，及时止损是成年人最伟大的自律。When you are occupied by bad things, you simply can't spare your hands to meet better things. You are not reconciled now. When you put down and look back, it is really not worth mentioning, or even do not want to recall.Stopping losses in time is the greatest self-discipline of adults.

一生中，有时候好像失去了一些东西，其实却没有；有时候似乎得到了想要的，但最后却失去得更多。总之，存在就是合理的。所以坦然接受一切，这就是最好的生活态度。In life,sometimes it seems to lose something,but in fact it is not;sometimes it seems yo get what you want,but in the end you lose more.In short,existence is justified.So accept everything openly,this is the best attiude to life.