Don't make yourself worse in love. Good love is mutual achievement. If she doesn't make people more like themselves, you should think about it. It may hurt. Give yourself time to grieve, feel and then become better, so as not to waste this meeting.别让自己在恋爱中变糟糕，好的恋爱是互相成就，如果她他没让人变得更像自己，你就要考虑考虑了，该断就断，或许很疼，给自己时间去悲伤，去感受，然后变的更好，才不白费这一场遇见。

While admiring others' sweet love, I am eager to meet her, but I am afraid of getting married. What happened to me?一边羡慕别人又甜甜的恋爱，一边又渴望遇到那个她，但是却又恐惧结婚，我到底是怎么了。

Love can make your life icing on the cake, but life without love will shine. You have to understand that you are your own sun, and the outside world is very big, not just so-called love. Live well and meet slowly.恋爱可以让你的人生锦上添花，可不恋爱你的人生也会闪闪发光，你要明白你才是自己的太阳，外面的世界很大，不只有所谓的爱情，好好生活，慢慢相遇。