1.不要太乖，不想做的事可以拒绝，不喜欢的话假装没听见。人生不是用来讨好别人的，而是要善待自己。

Don't be too good. You can refuse what you don't want to do, and pretend not to hear what you don't like. Life is not to please others, but to treat yourself well.

2.成长这一路就是懂得闭嘴努力，知道低调谦逊，学会强大自己，拼命去成为自己想成为的人。

The way to grow up is to know how to shut up and work hard, to know how to be humble, to learn to be strong, and to strive to be the person you want to be.

3.不必羡慕谁的生活，那些活得漂亮的人，也是在深夜咽下一肚子的心酸和委屈，清晨擦干眼泪继续生活。

Don't envy anyone's life. Those who live a beautiful life also swallow a belly of sorrow and grievance in the middle of the night, and dry their tears in the morning to continue to live.

1.无论你做得再好，也会有人对你指手画脚。不必太过在意别人的看法，让自己活得畏手畏脚。

No matter how well you do, you will also be criticized. Don't care too much about others' opinions, and let yourself live in fear of hands and feet.

2.即便你有一颗百毒不侵的内心，往往也会被一句简单的安慰打败。

Even if you have an invincible heart, you will often be defeated by a simple consolation.

3.生活没那么多诗和远方，更多的是坎坷和无奈。别一边不作为，一边抱怨，心安，便是活着的最美好状态。

Life is not so much poetry and distance, but more frustrations and helplessness. Don't complain while doing nothing. Peace of mind is the best state of life.